leaving the rat race for the simple life

Janine Huldie from New York, New York on July 07, 2012: I am so not sure Bill, but again totally agree with you on this one. I'll remember that one for some time to come. ONly a few years ago it was much more difficult than it is now to start up an internet based business with no experience. They spend money each month for the locker -- money they could use to take their grandkids to Disneyland, go on a cruise with friends, make some good memories. Leaving the rat race for the simple life has become much more viable due to the internet. Now it's just heck with it, here it is, like it or not! Perhaps you entered the rat race because of societal expectations, the culture of busyness, the pursuit of “things,” wanting more money, perfectionism, people-pleasing, wanting to give your kids experiences, comforts, etc… or perhaps another reason entirely. If you dream of leaving the rat race for the simple life, consider the things you deem important for which you are presumably working for. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on July 05, 2012: Thanks for sharing wonderful and insightful pieces of writing. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on June 11, 2012: Screaming, you and I are lucky people, aren't we? I wish you the best from this day forward and thank you for stopping by. Btw, this particular young woman was a financial advisor if you can believe that! Samnasy, very true my friend! Very good hub and full of food for thought . Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on July 12, 2012: Mao, great line! So totally agree with the message of your hub. My plan to escape the rat race and live a simple life in Montenegro all started when I bought a tiny, run-down apartment in Kotor Old Town in 2005. Our being ‘off guard’ is allowing our lives to be controlled by the advertising companies who promote happiness through their products. Sharing. Yessir, that's what I hope for...changing one life, or helping one person...and from there it will spread. Why do we go further and further in debt, credit cards, hire purchase, bank overdrafts to buy more!!! By the way, my fiancé had a heart attack 3 years ago and has recovered well and now has a second chance at life. Their income remains limited by the hours they work. neeleshkulkarni from new delhi on June 09, 2012: this yes is all i have to say.why say more when you know even less will communicate your thoughts equally well. Reduce Your Spending 3. Thank you Peter! Even in the highest paid careers, many feel disempowered and trapped because they need to keep turning up to work. I now life in a predominantly Buddhist country, and despite over 90% of the population claiming to be followers of Buddhism, their desire for the material (which contradicts the teaching), is insatiable. It can be so easy to get caught up in the rat race can’t it? Jools Hogg from North-East UK on July 07, 2012: Bill, I keep coming back to your Lifestyle Choices hubs - just to remind myself that reflection on my own life is worth the effort . Yes indeed....if it exists I never found it! I will NEVER share your email with third parties, your privacy is very important to me. Learn more by accessing this free video series. It changed everything. May peace and happiness be yours, today and always. width: 100%; I plan on writing a book about it once the journey begins your post has reminded me that we are making this move for all of the right reasons! It’s worse than not enough. Peter Geekie from Sittingbourne on July 08, 2012: I joined the club just last week and echo your sentiments. It has been a year since I wrote this article. ONly a few years ago it was much more difficult than it is now to start up an internet based business with no experience. Just like the saying about the frog and the boiling water. My reflections were fleeting at best; one gets wrapped up in the game and rarely stops to smell the greenbacks. We put up with a lot more than we want to in order to have the job we think we want to live the live we have been sold. max-height: 0; Now that I feel I am ready to attend University I am going there to study something that actually speaks to me as a person so I can create a life for myself that is slow, meaningful, and exceptionally simplified. min-height: 30px; For me, this was a battle I simply couldn't win. I appreciate you stopping by! I was not happy with the way I was being dragged in the rat race. I was once a teacher, and I was one of the rare teachers who did not believe that all students should immediately go to college after high school. In most cases the people making the big move are elderly retirees, but occasionally I see younger people with families leaving the rat race to lead a simpler life as well. Your email address will not be published. Redefine what you need. Then here are ten tell-tale signs that it's almost certainly time to make a break, escape the rat race and do something better. That's cult, right?...still not good? It's the same with health. background-color: #464646; You are very welcome and again thank you for all your support as well on here. Peter Messerschmidt from Port Townsend on July 12, 2012: Thumbs up and awesome! I love your comments. Believe you can actually make money on your own without having to show up and sit in a cubicle for … WHOSE "American Dream" am I trying to live? She follows her calling, too. A life of choice is much better. What "expertise" he may have has been gained from experience. :) This was a very good hub to begin with. It really hit the spot for me this morning as I sat down in my cubicle, trapped in the typical corporate ladder atmosphere, not even knowing what the American dream is. Why do I feel so lost and empty? Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on August 01, 2012: Thank you Au fait! Life is good today, now that I've learned what is truly important. The internet has already enabled many to work from their laptops and earn more than they could have from their previous jobs. I share the same thoughts and am in the same situation as you were previously. Not because of the recession at the time, because truly I … Majority of those caught up in the rat race are doing it to prove a point or to … So called financial security? It was a nightmare! Thank you! . Some things really aren’t worth what it truly costs to have them, and that cost is usually much more than money. I agree, for me one day at a time 3 years clean and sober Aug 9th 2012 when I get there. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on May 28, 2012: Theresa, you are so very kind. So much of life is wasted on stuff....meaningless stuff...I'm all for a simpler life and for the past six years I have been working towards that goal. What IS "happiness?" Leaving the rat race for the simple life has become much more viable due to the internet. and now I have concerns about being able to just keep the things I have, without having to suffer.. 4CFF5B50-2508-4B41-B58E-C8D756E6EE67 I watched the movie Company Man, i enjoyed it, wow. How I quit the rat race to work on my terms – without quitting my job. I haven’t been in the “modern” rat race for some time, but you can still get caught up in certain aspects of the rat race without going to work in a cubicle every day. Thank you! Required fields are marked *. I can connect to this hub so much. Thank you. And as unhappiness set in, my best thinking told me that I must not be working enough, or not hard enough, or I don't yet own enough, so I picked up the pace, and the unhappiness continued. I was, quite frankly, trapped, sinking in quicksand of my own making. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on July 19, 2015: Letstalkabouteduc....good for you!!!!! Being ‘easy’ with your problems is a simple way to loosen their power over you. Great piece. Less is more and that's why this summer, I am downsizing, freeing some space in the house and turning some of my dust accumulating stuff into cash. Sadly... it takes most people till their 40's to figure out that our culture has sold them a bag of goods about what "should" make them happy. :) Love your attitude! Not because of some mid-life crisis, because mid-life is in my rearview mirror, never to be seen again. You can put a frog in boiling water, and he will leap out immediately. After some serious thought, I refused to slow down. I fear that others will continue to learn these lessons the hard way until they are forced to change. Very few high school seniors are ready to make life decisions as college demands they do. Scary at first no doubt, but it was the only decision you could make if serenity was your goal. I am very excited about your journey and look forward to reading about it once that book is out. Best wishes to you as well. Has your life been worth living? I can relate to the illness you experienced. } I don't do them as often as I once did because I'm afraid it sounds like I'm preaching, like I'm standing behind some bloody pulpit. The concept of the TV series is that presenters take the prospective buyers around to different houses in the country with the hope that they will decide which is the perfect location and house for them. But it’s not making people happy. opacity: 0; Thank you for returning. Lesson learned. My wife and I are looking to make our change soon. Bill is an author. Theresa Ast from Atlanta, Georgia on May 28, 2012: Hi Bill- A terrific hub, full of insight and common sense advice wisdom that many of us would do well to think about. Man oh man, I wish I would learn lessons quicker. I live an extreme lifestyle and I'm comfortable with it. Janine, I wonder why it takes us all so long to learn this very simple lesson...the best things in life are free. I came to realize that no matter how many toys I have, they never could bring me true happiness. Zoran, welcome to our site, and thank you so much for taking the time to read my article. I do need retirement savings. If you would like to learn how you could be one of them watch this free video series and learn how to start your own business online. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on November 01, 2014: Krishna, what a wonderful comment, and how wise you are. I don't agree that "everyone" who simplified was making over six figures. CrisSp from Sky Is The Limit Adventure on July 08, 2012: P.S. Ben, when I talk about frugal living, I'm talking about extremes. "Money can buy you a fancy dog, but only love can make him wag his tail." Thanks! And I feel you are getting a cult following ;). Thank you for the great comment! It's a great community! How have you arrived at not needing retirement savings? I agree with you and the changes you have outline. So I packed up my office and walked away. The decision to resign from a well-paid, (relatively) secure job, especially in the current environment, may strike many as foolhardy and slightly mad. Social issues like unemployment and debt can be guarded against, but it takes a … I appreciate you stopping by. I have no doubt you will be extremely happy with your decision. Peter, my new friend and kindred spirit, welcome and thank you! Conversely, when I lost it, all it was to me was losing a game that I could play again if I chose....which I have not chosen for over six years now. max-height: 999px; I have paid off my debt, and I now buy only what I can afford without incurring debt. "Shrouds have no pockets." Ditching the Rat Race for the Simple Life. Just keep 'em coming :o). Enjoying life and not working my self to death to buy that stuff and to keep up with the Jones!voted up! How will you feel about your life at the end of it? As a foreigner moving to Philippines with no savings and leaving the comforts of United States behind there are many risks involved. Thanks for the follow and the good luck. Annie Fenn from Australia on July 07, 2012: You make some very relevant points here, how can happiness come from working ourselves into the ground, forgoing family time, time for self and for sanity; for more material 'things'. What "expertise" he may have has been gained from experience. They are out there with the product slogans and the ideals of living a life far from what we currectly have. It has been a wonderful transformation, one I could never imagine thirty years ago, and I am so happy that I lived long enough to learn an important lesson: Money truly can't buy happiness. Bill Holland (author) from Olympia, WA on September 04, 2016: Thank you Peter. Thank you my dear...sincerely...thank you! My votes and best wishes to you Bill and sharing!! Thanks for the visit and congratulations! Am so glad i came across this site, well done. But they feel ‘stuck’ because they are living to their means. I am incredibly excited (and a bit terrified) of the blank canvas in front of me, the opportunity to step out of and away from the rat race and the chance to let go and reassess my life’s purpose. With that kind of money you can save and get out. Good luck with your new life and congratulations on your engagement. Am I doing this because I feel like I "should" or because it is truly who I am? I wish I could force about 100 million Americans to read your great comment. I have found happiness and peace and that's what it's all about, right? It's a different ball game I think. Fortunately I have not found my way in University yet (though now I am on that path) and have spent the last 10 years (i'm 34 now) working non career jobs, trying to find myself. This also allows it to be scaled up. 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